An open letter for you.
Yep, we cannot please everybody and we are not born to please everybody but as the saying goes “lahat ay may limitasyon,” there is always a “but” in between.
Ang pakikisama o pakikipagkapwa tao is a choice. Nasasayo ‘yan. Kung gusto mo ng isang magandang samahan, kailangan mong matutunan ang dalawang bagay na ‘yan, kung ayaw mo, again, it’s your choice.
Ang pakikisama o pakikipagkapwa tao sa mga taong hindi ka gusto o hindi mo gusto does not mean you’re being plastik or nanunulsol ka para lang magustuhan ka, it’s called being matured and being open-minded.
Hindi mo binabago ang sarili mo, you are just being matured dahil kaya mo nang tanggapin ang mga negatibong opinyon ng mga nasa paligid mo. Pasok sa isang tenga, labas sa kabila.
No need to prove anything to anyone. Be yourself but set a limitation to it.
Be open but not too open.
Hindi mo malalakad ng mag-isa ang buhay mo, you need support, negative man o positive ang vibe nila. No need to block them from your life, you just need to balance it- yin at yang lang kumbaga.
There may be some people who will still judge you but don’t worry, kapit ka lang kay Lord, may forever sa Kanya.
This is an open letter for you. I hope you understand, that’s how it really works.